I remember that as a kid,
I was told be careful who I associate with.
Those who you allow around you, can reflect who you are –
And what you are likely to do.
If you’re trying to raise a child of character
Who and what you expose them to, does matter.
Kids absorb more than you think.
When you think they are not –
They are seeing and listening.
Lying, cheating, name-calling,
Selfish behaviors, bullying.
Not being clear with his words.
Not showing kindness or empathy when he should.
Self-serving, lacking discipline, not being responsible,
Taking advantage of the vulnerable.
Expecting much, giving nothing in return.
Not showing concern.
Demanding loyalty, not caring about others,
Not standing to help the poor,
Giving more worth to those who have more.
Is this the model you show to your children?
What do you tell them?
Who would you tell them to follow?
A Man with character or the one that is shallow?
Will you expect less from your children?
Lower their standard?
Teach them they should get more than they deserve?
Demand that they are always graded on a curve?
If this is what you have planned for your children?
You and they may be in for a rude awakening.
For the rich and famous, these behaviors may hold.
But usually not for us who are lower on the totem pole.
And even for some with fame,
It has been seen as unacceptable
When they are labeled as role models.
But somehow this President has been given a pass.
Lowered expectations and standards.
Leaders are supposed to raise and pull us up.
Not drag us through the mud like Trump.
Will you tell your boys to be wrong and strong?
To think that admitting to mistakes, shows weakness?
Will you tell your girls to be subservient?
Make them believe that boys are in the know –
So that they should be in control?
That is what’s seen with this new Republican breed.
And is often shown nationally.
Will you tell your children never to bend?
Stick with something/someone to the very end?
Despite mounting evidence
That the time has come to change course?
Will you ever teach that at times you can cut your loss?
Find a different strategy?
And release yourself from insanity?
Parents are often advised to lead by example.
Do as I say, not as I do – Will not be ample.
As the kids grow, seeds are sown
And once they have taken root,
They will be difficult to remove.
If you are a parent or a parent-to-be.
That role should be your priority.
Not for your political party.
Be aware that your children often see, hear and know.
Usually more than you care to give them credit for.
And if none of that is what you would want for your children.
How can you accept it for, or from your President?